Sunday, September 7, 2008

Good byes....

These are my least favorite things. It means so many things to me, as a human being who loves other human beings deeply.

Grief. Feeling lonesome and alone. Tears. A total separation of their physical beings.....which in turn, means a loss of ability to hug them.

As one who has a hope of eternity, a place where I will again be with those I love after I leave this earth, I can't grieve death as those who have no hope after death. I can only grieve this temporary separation. That's bad enough.

Of course, death is not the only time we say our farewells to those we love. I think as parents, we do it on a fairly regular basis as our children grow up and move to various spots on this little globe. We grieve those times too, but it is usually bittersweet as we know moving away can cause good things to happen to our family. They get an education. They learn how to make a place for themselves in society and take on new and challenging responsibilities. They grow up....and sometimes are not very close in proximity.

We, as a church family, will be saying good-bye to our pastor, his wife and family in the coming weeks. Pastor Randall Friesen, his wife Lauralea and their four children, have become a part of us, a part of our lives. They have been our help in times of affliction, trouble and death. They have encouraged us, as a church body, to venture out of ourselves and become a vital part of this larger community we call Prince Albert. They have led us into becoming stronger and more confident individuals......as they totally have exhibited Christ, who is our hope and strength.

Saying good-bye can be tough. It will be tough. How do you love people that deeply and have it not be tough.

Another season in the life of Gateway Covenant Church.

"For I know the plans I have for you", declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you, not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

Amen.

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